So your girlfriend broke up with you. Are you lost and hurt? Do you want to know how to get your ex back? Obviously I am unaware of your particular circumstances. But I can tell you that in many cases your girlfriend (or boyfriend) breaking up with you probably had more to do with what you weren’t doing, than with something in particular that you did. Here’s some inout from a woman’s perspective. Many break ups don’t happen over big incidents, they just kind of wither away.You are familiar with the scenario. “I love you, (actually meaning “I’m comfortable in our relationship”) but I’m not in love with you”. I’m not referring to just physical intimacy. However if you haven’t even tied the knot yet and decreasing sex is already an issue, then you really should read the rest of this article! It might really lead some insight into how to get your girlriend back.

Women often leave their lovers when they feel that they are no longer a priority. There’s nothing to make them feel truly “special”. Even women who think of themselves as realistic have been brainwashed by romance fantasies promoted by Hollywood, advertisers and the media. We think there’s no reason we can’t have it all. That doesn’t mean that we expect flowers and extravagant gifts every night when we get home from work. We want you to hit the mute button on the TV when we talk to you, not just nod and grunt. Most women need space to “debrief” the events of their day without feeling that you are automatically jump in with advice…or that we could get to the point a lot quicker. If we’ve gone to the trouble to make you a meal, you need to turn the television and your cell phone off. It really is the small gestures that matter. We want to be noticed and appreciated. While you might be smart enough to tell us automatically that we look “fine” in our jeans, you would be smarter if you actually looked at us before you said so.

Let’s say you are well trained and can pull all of this off, as well as running a load of laundry. You’re up to date with your “Mars and Venus”. Good job! What else would have made your girlfriend feel truly special? It needn’t take a lot of money, just some thought and creativity. Do you have variations of the same “dinner or movie” date every week, or do you often do things in a group? Use your imagination! You should still have plenty of “fun”, intimate dates. Experience new places and things together, just the two of you. There are so many cool dates you can create that are inexpensive. Try one of these suggestions. Get some cheap glow in the dark stars. They are easily found at the Dollar Store or places like Target or Walmart. Write out “I love you” on the ceiling or make up a heart shaped constellation so that when she turns of the lights she gasps. She can think of you every night when she goes to sleep! Drop in on her at work unexpectedly and take her on a surprise date.

You don’t need to spend a lot of money, it’s the thoughtfulness of the gesture that counts. If the weather is pleasant you could pack a picnic basket and a blanket and unexpectedly pick her up for a lunch date. These small gestures make a women feel treasured, appreciated and special. It could be the humblest romantic gesture that warms a woman’s heart. It’s the small things that can make your girlfriend feel special and valued~It doesn’t take huge gestures to make a woman feel valued~{Even the smallest romantic or thoughtful gesture can win a woman over}~It could be the humblest romantic gesture that warms a woman’s heart}. If we feel treasured, you could probably get away with slurping you cereal and not cleaning up the bowl. So, there are some ideas of what you might have been doing wrong. Now resolve that if and when you get your ex girlfriend back you will do things differently. Keep these ideas in mind and you should be well off to a good start. I hope things work out the way you hope!.